Irène Gagné and Yvette Boily, two residents of Villa Aulneau, have lived full and interesting lives, and have decided that moving into assisted living doesn’t mean they’re done contributing to the world around them.
Gagné, born into a family of 9 children in St-Pierre-Jolys, has been living in the residences for 8 years. Boily, who jokingly says, “I was a child of the depression, but I’m not depressed!” has been at Villa Aulneau for 10 years, which have flown by.
“I’ve still got a lot to contribute,” she shares. “I’m following the example of all those who have come before me and helped out. There are over 40 volunteers who all give what they can to make this a true home for us.”
Gagné agrees. “There’s lots to be done, and I’m the type who wants to be doing something,” she shares. “I help set up and organize bingos, card games, or even some activities outside. Many residents need a bit of extra help getting to or from what we have planned, so we help with that, too.”
As time marches on, and abilities change, both women are thankful for the purpose volunteering has brought them. “It gives you energy,” admits Gagné. “When you have to do something, when you know someone is counting on you, you get up and go. I hear some seniors talk about things that ‘pass the time.’ That’s not enough for me, that’s for sure. I want to do something meaningful with my time.”
They cite Drissia Jamaa, the recreation services coordinator, as an inspiration. “She’s always working, and always dreaming up new ideas for us,” Boily shares. “There’s a real sense of community here, and if Drissia needs our help to keep that going, she knows she can call on us. She has always said we’re a big family, and she’s right.”
Both women are determined to live full and rich lives as seniors. Boily is the designated host for many special events at Villa Aulneau. She introduces and thanks guests, musicians and other folks who come to provide entertainment to residents. “Being a senior doesn’t mean we should get tossed aside,” she says with a laugh. “We have a lot to give. Some residents, all they can give is a smile, but that counts, too. Volunteering gives you a lot of satisfaction. You feel better about yourself, and you know you’ve brought joy to others.”
Gagné always helped her sisters with their families through the years, and she’s now glad to have found another place where she belongs. “Our job as volunteers is really to turn this building into a home,” she explains. “And truly, this is the best place for me. I’m so happy to live in a place where everyone is so welcoming and we all help each other.”